By Ajay Goyal
All omens are pointing to a depressing year ahead but we need not succumb to the dark night. We need to do something dramatic and radical to make sure 2009 is an enjoyable year. Americans have already voted in a good man as President. Now we can all do our bit to be happy even though there is grim news all around. Discount sales by department stores will not lift our spirits. We need to be proactive in finding daily joy. In no particular order, here are my suggestions:
Write a Check: If you have been wanting to give to a charity and postponing it, this is the time to give. Even if your finances are short now, you know there are people in far worse condition and critical need. When you give you get more and this is a proven fact of life. But without expectation of a return on giving, it has never been more important or a better time to give to someone. I suggest carrying a cheque in your pocket with a stamped envelop. When you come across a cause that moves you, do not make a mental note and promise to pay later. Write the check and drop it in the mail there and then.
Give some Time: I know from my little work in some charities that more than money they value time. The other day I was traveling with a young lady on a flight from Moscow to London. She told me of the work she does for a charity for battered women in Oxford. I was surprised to learn from her the scale of violence against women in a place that we usually associate with great scholarship and genius but equally shocked to know how little help is available. Women like her make a big difference to many lives, more than our money ever can. There are true heroes all around us who give time for good causes. The economic condition has placed us all in situations with plenty of spare time. The fashionable benefit dinners are out of fashion anyway. Your time will be priceless and valued for those in need of a compassionate moment.
Write a Letter: When things are rough I pause and take the time to write a letter. In the most frantic moments after 9/11 when we were putting together a daily newspaper in Moscow, I wrote a letter to my kids. I have found letter writing to be most soothing and nurturing exercise for the mind. What is more, I write the letter in long hand and that slows down the pace of heart and flow of adrenaline. You may want to send that letter as an attachment to email if snail mail is not your thing but sitting down and writing a letter is perhaps the best employment of time. I am going to write one to my kids today and I cannot tell you what a wonderful stress buster it is.
Walk a holiday: Next holiday trip you book, make it a walking tour. There are many wonderful walking holidays in Italy, France, Spain, India, England and the US. If you do not like walking, take a bike tour. It is a wonderful way of mingling with local culture, feel the warmth and energy of history and nature and re charge batteries. The more tiring the holiday, the better it is for the soul. Walking and biking are cheaper than cruises or high frill vacations. Go on a religious trail in Spain, or wine tour of Tuscany, or walk the highlands in Scotland. You might find walking tours are the best investment of your time.
Do not have a party: This you know already -- the more you party the worse you will feel. The guilt after a party -- you come back, turn on the TV and see depressing news of war, death and suffering – is getting tougher to manage. Instead of going for a party and celebrating when there is nothing to celebrate, do something quite the opposite.
Read a book, watch an old film, go for a walk. Turn down party invitations and ask the hosts to send money to your favorite charity. I can tell you from personal experience, you will feel absolutely wonderful.
Outsource personal work: I have seen a surge of people seeking freelance, work from home and temp work since the economic crisis started. You can now get much more done for much less. In fact lots of pending projects and work can now be completed for a fraction of cost. Things like scanning of old photo negatives, getting a personal web site made, managing accounts can now be done with good and cheap freelancers. People are desperate for work and earnings. Be a social entrepreneur - outsource small bits of work and tasks to those who need employment.
Learn a new skill: Whether its golf or fencing, sailing or dancing, use the free time to indulge in your favorite hobby. I have always been impressed by how many Russians take painting, dancing, fencing and acting lessons in weak economic conditions. It is a wonderful way to beat the forced downtime.
Polish your language: When was the last time you read something to improve your language. It is easy, it is cheap and it has never been more important. Improve your conversation and writing skills by picking a book from local library on language.
Read a Russian Classic: After a gap of 25 years I have started reading Mikhail Sholokhov's Quiet Flows the Don again. War and Peace will be next. Russian classics are greatest treasures of mankind. They are thick too. They sooth the soul and kill tons of time.
In a lighter vein:
Go back to Windows XP: Stop cursing your Vista based computer. Buy a DOS based PC and load your own copy of Windows XP. All the pirated software is still available for windows XP. Bill Gates has retired and does not need your money. Be subversive. Do not buy Vista and join a protest group to bring XP back.
Use Mozilla Firefox: I am shocked each day to find that some people still use Internet Explorer. Download Mozilla Firefox, do not try Chrome and just stay away from Microsoft products.
Use Sun’s Open Office: I started using Open Office instead of MS Office three years ago. There is no need to pay top dollar for MS office when Open Office and Google Docs are free and far more useful.
Stop the Subscription: Save money and cancel the subscription of business newspapers and magazines. Stop reading newspapers all together if you can. You will save many trees. They have all been wrong on everything anyway. There is no need to allow newspapers to stoke hysteria and panic when they could have forewarned and forearmed you. They did not do that. Time to cancel your newspaper subscription. If you must, read them online.
Turn off the BlackBerry: Try switching off your BlackBerry in the evening and over the weekends. It is technically feasible and if you can bring your forefinger to bring about that much pressure on the Off button, it will bring you delight and peace.
Switch off all appliances: I did not believe it when I saw it on TV but the amount of energy consumed by TV, cable box, routers, modem, phone chargers, microwave and all the other appliances when they are hibernating is
phenomenal. Turn off the switch and just disconnect them when not in use. You will save money and save the planet.
And Finally...
Get Mad: Next time your bank, cable company, electricity or water company acts difficult, get mad with them. Post your complaints on the internet sites and demand free credit. Be polite to the call center in India (its not their fault) but otherwise just go nuts at any injustice. Firmly demand better service and cheaper rates. Send written complaints if you have been wronged. Shouting on the phone just costs you money. If they do not mend, withdraw your business. Go to all your neighbors and friends and ask them to do the same. Hurt big companies and banks. It will make you feel good.
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Ajay
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